Choosing flowers

Okay, so you want to buy some flowers.  To get the right kind, it is important to start with why you are buying flowers. 

If you are buying flowers as an apology for something, put the flowers back, then go apologize for what you have done. Flowers will not buy forgiveness. Flowers will not fix something. The only thing you will do by buying flowers in this case is to cause her to think you did something the next time you buy her flowers.

The correct reason to buy her flowers, is because she deserves them or because you want her to have them.

Now, how should you choose flowers?  Start by identifying the price range you want to use.  Locate the flowers within the correct range and begin by looking for wilted leaves and petals. You should also look for frost or odd light patches on the leaves or petals; frost damage will cause the leaves or petals to brown early. You will want as few of these as possible. Once you have located a good batch, use a bouquet bag to hold it.

After purchasing the flowers, use a plastic bag to cover them if the weather is below freezing outside.

As for color and type, use what you know of her to make her happy. If you have no idea, red is safe. Try to get a batch with some greens mixed in if you use a solid color. This will add some contrast and make it a bit larger.

Later on, I recommend finding a good florist in your area. The flowers will be of higher quality and will last longer. As a bonus, once they see you enough, they can help with recommendations and ideas for surprises.